SI
SI
discoversearch

We've detected that you're using an ad content blocking browser plug-in or feature. Ads provide a critical source of revenue to the continued operation of Silicon Investor.  We ask that you disable ad blocking while on Silicon Investor in the best interests of our community.  If you are not using an ad blocker but are still receiving this message, make sure your browser's tracking protection is set to the 'standard' level.
Pastimes : ISOMAN AND HIS CAVE OF SOLITUDE

 Public ReplyPrvt ReplyMark as Last ReadFilePrevious 10Next 10PreviousNext  
To: ISOMAN who wrote (102)1/20/1999 5:58:00 PM
From: barbara sperino  Read Replies (1) of 539
 
The Fork

There was a woman who had been diagnosed with cancer and had been
given 3 months to live. Her doctor told her to start making
preparations to die (something we all should be doing all of the
time.)
So she contacted her pastor and had him come to her house to
discuss certain aspects of her final wishes. She told him which
songs she wanted sung at the service, what scriptures she would
like read, and what she wanted to be wearing.

The woman also told her pastor that she wanted to be buried with
her favorite Bible. Everything was in order and the pastor was
preparing to leave when the woman suddenly remembered something
very important to her.

"There's one more thing." She said excitedly. "What's that?" came
the pastor's reply. "This is very important," the woman
continued. "I want to be buried with a fork in my right hand." The
pastor stood looking at the woman not knowing quite what to say.
"That shocks you, doesn't it?" the woman asked.
"Well, to be honest, I'm puzzled by the request," said the pastor.

The woman explained. "In all my years of attending church socials
and functions where food was involved (and let's be honest, food is
an important part of any church event; spiritual or otherwise); my
favorite
part was when whoever was clearing away the dishes of the main
course would lean over and say 'You can keep your fork.' It was my
favorite part because I knew that something better was coming. When
they told me to keep my fork I knew that something great was about
to be given to me. It wasn't Jell-O or pudding. It was cake or
pie. Something with substance.

So I just want people to see me there in that casket with a fork in
my hand and I want them to wonder 'What's with the fork?' Then I
want you to tell them: 'Something better is coming so keep your
fork, too.' " The pastor's eyes were welled up with tears of joy as
he hugged the woman goodbye. He knew this would be one of the last
times he would see her before her death. But he also knew that
that woman had a better grasp of heaven than he did. She KNEW that
something better was coming.

At the funeral people were walking by the woman's casket and they
saw the pretty dress she was wearing and her favorite Bible and the
fork placed in her right hand. Over and over the pastor heard the
question
"What's with the fork?" And over and over he smiled. During his
message the pastor told the people of the conversation he had with
the woman shortly before she died. He also told them about the fork
and about what it symbolized to her. The pastor told the people how
he could not stop thinking about the fork and told them that they
probably would not be able to stop thinking about it either..... He
was right.
So the next time you reach down for your fork, let it remind you, oh
so gently, that there is something better coming.
Report TOU ViolationShare This Post
 Public ReplyPrvt ReplyMark as Last ReadFilePrevious 10Next 10PreviousNext