"But obviously males have evolved (because it is in the self interest of their genes) to want to sow their seed on whatever patch of ground will hold still for a second."
Maybe its just me, but I don't believe single men, in reality, avail themselves of every sexual opportunity presented to them. I used to perform as a singer in many of the trendiest clubs here in Atlanta, and it was like being a kid in a sexual candy store, but I turned down far more offers of sex from women than I ever took advantage of. And I wasn't unique in this regard--my fellow musicians (and fairly attractive male performers in general) all had ample opportunities for sex, but for the most part, weren't nailing every woman who had a pulse. Of course there were some who would, but I'd put them in the 10th percentile.
Surprise, surprise! Most men appreciate the experience of sex more within the context of an emotionally grounded relationship, than in an anonymous encounter in which there is only physical gratification.
I understand, and agree, with Lather's point that the sexual dynamic of two male libidos in concert contributes to higher sexual frequency among gay males, but I dont believe this phenomena adequately explains kind of numbers the Kinsey's reported. I believe there is a psychological element, a neurotic component, that overlays and completes the big picture of hyperpromiscuity among gay males.
{Now where are my those charts and graphs I had . . .) |
