Don't be too hard on yourself. One of the most interesting things about the human mind is how we can have so many different, mutually exclusive, thoughts at the same time.
I was interested in what you have to say because the hatred of homosexuals is puzzling to me. I am not saying that you hate homosexuals. It seems to me that men really hate effeminate men, and since I am a woman, I suspect that it has something to do with men hating women.
Most men really prefer the company of men, seems like, maybe it's a simple matter of having interests in common. My husband, who is not macho, and hates sports, loves to play war games. The wargamers don't exclude women, but almost no women are interested in playing them. You see a few who come along to be with their husband/boyfriend, very rarely, almost never.
As a trial lawyer, I am acutely aware that women lawyers may do fine, but are always excluded from "the gang." "The brotherhood." |
