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Pastimes : Let's Talk About Our Feelings!!!

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To: jbe who wrote (35057)4/17/1999 11:48:00 AM
From: Edwarda  Read Replies (1) of 108807
 
Joan, I understand quite fully your reservations. A relationship based on power and domination has to give one pause, although it can be loving. In my own life, I have had plenty of reason to be wary of entering into such a relationship.

BTW, rape may be the ultimate domination, but it is involuntary submission and has nothing to do with sex as far as I can tell. The domination is merely expressed via sex organs.

Yet the kind of role playing to which Steven refers in the post following yours can be intensely sexual and a part of intense loving between equal partners. Under these circumstances, it can be a safe exploration of experience and sensation. The key words are "equal," "loving," and "safe."
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