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Pastimes : Let's Talk About Our Feelings!!!

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To: E who wrote (35092)4/17/1999 10:04:00 PM
From: Jacques Chitte  Read Replies (1) of 108807
 
>But it's a man looking at a woman (or at somebody) and getting an erection and performing an act that gives
him sexual release and can make a baby. (Babies don't get made from domination, they get made from sex.)<

I think that with forcible rape that is necessary but not sufficient. A characteristic of rape is the imposition of will in the most defense-shattering way short of murder. A deliberate override of violent unwillingness - a declaration of the other's powerlessness.
Incredibly ugly. And yet a universal facet of human nature.
A mugging is like rape without sex. I know. I was mugged once. The feeling of powerlessness in the face of REALLY not wanting this situation ... sucked. For a long while. It leaves ... a victim behind who is permanently "dehumanized" to some extent.
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