<<... and focus here on whether the rapist who spots a victim, stalks
her with an erection, becomes increasingly aroused as he closes in
on her, traps her, terrorizes her (increasing his sexual excitation,
because these guys are excited by the fear of their victim,) reaches
his point of maximum erection, produces precoital fluid, tears her
clothes off or makes her undress, touches her breasts, penetrates
her, and comes, sweating and moaning, is having a sexual
experience.>>
If the author of this were a man, I would feel it necessary to to turn him in for compulsory psychiatric evaluation. Of course he is having a sexual experience (by definition). I am far from totally innocent in these matters, but I have never even fantasized anything so vile, and I've a rich full catalog of sexual fantasies. I think except for the "terrorizes her" you're talking about date rape at a frat party. She's drunk, she doesn't consent or call out for help, he leads and coerces her, is assertive and not gentle, but uses at least minimal force to get her into a bedroom upstairs, the resists futilely, passes out (or gives up) and he has his way with her. Later, if passed out (and if she is not his best girl) the brothers may visit as they will. She awakes at dawn, feeling filthy and abused with a nasty taste in her mouth, with memories of horror that she will try to repress, believes that complaining will only disgrace her further, and cannot be sure she didn't egg the first man on. Everyone's afraid to take her home.
Another weekend at the campus. |
