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Pastimes : Another Good Reason Not To Be Married -- Ignore unavailable to you. Want to Upgrade?

To: cgraham who wrote (5324)	6/11/1999 8:30:00 PM
From: stan s.	Read Replies (2) \| Respond to of 6545

Cat, it's so easy on a forum like this, to give advice. It can seem so logical, heartfelt and genuine. Indeed the intentions are good, but...no one should ever make anyone facing such decisions feel pressured, or as if they are somehow lacking substance for not taking that initial step. If these life changing decisions are ever to be made, they should to be at a pace that suits those involved. Never, let anyone tag you with a negative label for taking it slow. To rush a break up can be as disastrous as rushing the initial union. It is not a question of courage...or certainly not in most cases...it is far more complicated than that. Time will give you direction. Just soak up all the enjoyment that each day yields...there is always some. Determine that the next day will give even more. One has to admire those that struggle with these choices and endeavor to be fair to all. My guess is you make that effort daily and I applaud you for it. I would hope that life rewards you. Stan