To: EL KABONG!!! who wrote (39 ) 7/16/1999 2:37:00 AM From: PCModem Respond to of 12465
Excellent Article. Exposing scams is one thing. Harassment is another. I'm in favor of exposing all scams. I think one can do it without becoming a complete ass in the process. I think one can educate one's peers without insulting their intelligence (or apparent lack thereof) and without making enemies of them. I think it is possible to disagree without being disagreeable about it. Recently I tried to help someone. I came across an item belonging to them. I spent some time and money tracking down the person. I called. I introduced myself and asked a question designed to reveal to me if I had the right party (sorry to be vague, but the details have nothing to do with the point). I had the right person. I was very pleased! I started to explain what I had that belonged to them and said that I wanted to send it to them...that's as far as I got. The person on the other end decided I was trying to sell them something. Nothing could be farther from the truth. They screamed at me, called me a liar, would not let me explain or prove to them the real reason for my call. They hung up on me. I called back, they said if I called again they would notify the police. I did not call again. I did not give up however. Instead I tried another method entirely. A few weeks later I was able to get in touch with a relative of the person in question who helped me return to this person their property. Eventually they thanked me. But they had to hear the truth from someone else in order for it to get through to them. My point: Some people don't want to be helped or they are not in a frame of mind condusive to being helped. If that is the case, then let them be. If they are meant to be helped it will happen. No need to give anyone an excuse to call the police. Or to file a lawsuit. "No special protections against libeling or defaming a person apply to the Internet, experts said. Gray said that, in general, a statement posted on the Internet or elsewhere could be considered defamatory or libelous if it was specific, made with malicious intent, was "provably false" and caused measurable harm to the target. " Good work Kerry! PCM