To: Neocon who wrote (53171 ) 8/28/1999 12:51:00 PM From: Rambi Read Replies (3) | Respond to of 108807
since you seem to be unusually good at getting the point Why Neo! That's not what you thought when we were discussing Eyes Wide Shut!! (just teasing, ok?) I wrote a post and then lost it yesterday when my computer froze. My life seems to take place in small bits, and seldom allows the kind of time I would like to think and write slowly. THe difficulty in communicating anything without a common basis in experience is obvious, so when one gets into abstract concepts it becomes nearly impossible. Everything we perceive- as we said a few days ago-- has to be filtered through our own "selfness" as well as through the events that have framed our lives. We only hope as we step into a communication that we will somehow be able to touch a shared meaning, a common nerve. When you think about it, it becomes almost miraculous that we can ever successfully share anything at all, much less such incredibly challenging ideas as the meaning of life kinds of things!! Maybe we kid ourselves when we think we understand each other most of the time, for it often depends on a great willingness to suspend one's ego and move into another's framework. It's one reason I am attracted to Jung's myths and universal consciousness. I can't remember who said it- "A myth doesn't represent the truth, it IS the truth." Somehow great myths bypass some of the surface confusions and go straight to the emotional commonality. I think great writers and artists do this, where most of us just struggle along trying hard to touch one or two, reach those closest to us, and there the great ones are reaching a multitude! What a gift. Confucius said, "THe whole end of speech is to be understood," but Quintullius wrote that "one should aim at being impossible to misunderstand." THat seems harder somehow. How can you ever tell!