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To: Ilaine who wrote (54819)9/6/1999 2:03:00 PM
From: E  Respond to of 108807
 
I guess what I think is that the most complex, and hardest to explain, of the very real dangers you list is "premature commitments even with worthy people."

And my fear is that it is much more likely for that to happen if a young person is inexperienced in sex and naive about the way it can make you feel toward the other person-- an unworthy or a worthy one-- detrimentally, or prematurely.



To: Ilaine who wrote (54819)9/6/1999 2:33:00 PM
From: Sidney Reilly  Respond to of 108807
 
I agree and would add that it is impossible to form a healthy relationship with someone when sex is always a factor in it at far too early a stage. Then the water gets muddied and the people involved are never able to sort it out. Also it makes it hard to break off an unhealthy relationship because of the added emotional pull. There is just no good reasons to let sex enter a relationship, not for a long time. But people do all the time. It's standard procedure. I bet you did, I know I did.