To: Rambi who wrote (46453 ) 2/4/2000 8:23:00 PM From: nihil Respond to of 71178
Penni, you know well what I think of you. But I fear that you cannot know how deeply these things are imbedded in people's hearts. You are a generation behind me. Raised, like me, in the South (admittedly the snooty not the groundsill part). But you cannot possibly know how painful it has been for me and my family to tear itself away from our roots and our involuntary heritage. My parents were driven from their home towns (where streets and schools and buildings were named for them) by poverty and lack of opportunity. They attended schools with only whites, and yet rejected segregation and everything it meant. They fought for civil rights for blacks until they died, although it cost them the respect of relatives and friends and their jobs. Their own families were torn apart because they rejected Southern ways. They knew that they were poor because their parents had lost their land after the Civil War. They grew up in families supporting invalids and widows and orphans from the Civil War. My parents' children were very different. We were all activists, and mostly abandoned the South as hopeless. But I knew Confederate veterans, enjoyed their stories, and sympathized with them. I certainly would never insult their memories. When I go the federal cemetary in Marietta, Georgia there's nothing but controversial symbols of conquerors there. But those dead deserve those symbols. When I go to Oakland Cemetary in Atlanta there are controversial symbols there for the vanquished, and the Georgia flag with the Naval Jack on it. I think they have a right to fly those symbols over the dead who died under them. As for South Carolina, the capitol is where secession started. Most of us think it was a big mistake. I would prefer that the Naval Jack had a few shell holes in it, but I think it quite useful to have it flying over the hotbed of secession (pocked with cannon balls as it is). It makes one think. Something that hurts very few people in the end.