To: Autumn Henry who wrote (82398 ) 3/4/2000 11:38:00 AM From: marquis103 Read Replies (2) | Respond to of 108040
Autumn. I'm responding to this post, not because I have some magic formula (believe me, I don't), but because I think you should realize that you're not stupid. You're reacting in the "nervous investor" mode that many of us less experienced people live in. The first thing you should do is stop beating yourself up. This sounds trite but each trading day is a learning experience, especially for people like me, who are trying to make a living at this. We are going to make mistakes. And it doesn't help that in the four months I've been at this, market volatility has increased markedly. I've given more money away than I like to think about because I got out too early. I try to comfort myself that J.P. Morgan said he got rich by always selling too early. It doesn't always make me feel better. What does make me feel better is realizing I'm not a mind reader, and if a stock's action is too weird for me to comprehend, so be it. Again, at the risk of sounding too trite, I only enter stocks I believe in after doing the fundamental analysis. If the stock starts turning against me, with no bad news, I usually hold knowing that no stock goes straight up. However, if I enter a stock that's running, or on someone else's recommendation, without doing any DD, I have to be honest with myself, if I take a loss, that I didn't prepare properly. I have also stopped trying to do too much trading in one day. If you expect to trade a lot, you do, even if it would be wise to hold. If you enter with the mindset, that you will only sell a strong stock when it reaches a point you've targeted, you'll be more apt to hold for the pay-off. That doesn't mean you'll always be right, but the odds will be in your favor. There's a lot more that could be said, and I know many of the more experienced investors on this thread will offer advice we both can use. I just wanted to say that the worst thing you can do is get overly nervous and mad at yourself, and take on the impression that you must be stupid because "everyone else is getting it right." We all operate at different emotional levels. Stay cool, go slow, do the homework, don't try to push a trade and make things happen, and for the most part, things will go your way. If one gets away from you, just remember what one of the analysts said this week on CNBC (I believe it was Mario Gabelli). "Every day the market presents us with marvelous opportunities." Russ