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To: epicure who wrote (77204)4/8/2000 5:48:00 AM
From: Edwarda  Read Replies (3) | Respond to of 108807
 
BTW- gay is not a synonym for strange, it is usually a synonym for lame, or queer in a really lame way. Like someone who is bad at sports, coming up to bat, and swinging the bat ineffectually- you could say "Look at the gay way he swings the bat". OR you see a person dressed funny, you can see "That's GAY". It doesn't really mean strange.

I have lately noticed the same usage of the word "gay" among male teenagers. It must be a bit difficult for boys whose sexuality is leaning toward homosexuality to hear and deal with on a day-to-day basis.

As for the rest of your posting: Ditto!



To: epicure who wrote (77204)4/8/2000 10:12:00 AM
From: lorrie coey  Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 108807
 
Wrong-O,

Gay means sprightly or quick or Estrange or jolly, jovial,etc !

-Quite the opposite of lame...[FYI]

"We used that usage when I was in highschool in the 70's. I don't know when it began, but it's a fairly old usage and obviously homophobic in origin. I'm sure it makes gay people uncomfortable, but that's probably the point of the word."

I think the men that march in Gay Pride parades would laugh their butts off at that statement!

"BTW- gay is not a synonym for strange, it is usually a synonym for lame, or queer in a really lame way. Like someone who is bad at sports, coming up to bat, and swinging the bat ineffectually- you could say "Look at the gay way he swings the bat". OR you see a person dressed funny, you can see "That's GAY". It doesn't really mean strange."



To: epicure who wrote (77204)4/8/2000 12:04:00 PM
From: Neocon  Respond to of 108807
 
It is not just boys, although you are right that lame is better than strange as a synonym, connotatively. It is, though, also used for weird, which is perhaps the more comprehensive of the three terms. And it doesn't sound so healthy to me, or like "coming to terms"....
I do not notice an appreciable rise in "star smoking" or other variables which "education" supposedly counter- acts. And I am not sure it is better than nothing.....