To: TATRADER who wrote (16095 ) 4/16/2000 1:46:00 PM From: stock talk Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 59879
Mark, most likely you are not in the correct mindset to hear this, but here goes anyway. :-) There is no such thing as a loss in the market (tongue in cheek) just knowledge gained at a price. With that additional knowledge you will be a better trader and that will lead to more profits in the future. Take that to the bank. The first time I lost everything it was (just <gg>) my life savings & and retirement accounts as well as my wife's full business line of credit. The second time it was more serious, I was on full margin, plus all the cash I owned or could borrow, including a full mortgage against all my real estate, including my personal residence. Basically I was done, or to put it another way I was "F". However, I found a financial backer and with the creative use of some credit cards (that's right credit cards at 19% interest) started over..........again. It took me several years just to clean up the mess, but when I did, two things happened, first I'll never again put myself in that situation and second it had forced me to become a better trader. It forced me to learn lessons that I had avoided learning in the past. So from my perspective,For the first 3 months of 2000, I was up 65K,(that 65K was already taken to the bank)looking to purchase a new home at the end of the year, at least have a down payment for it...In the last 3 weeks I have lost 65K...So basically the kid is broke or even. First, you were very lucky to make 65K in three months, thats not you say you weren't good, just lucky to be in the right place at the right time. Second, you got off easy. To acquire that type of an education for a zero net cost is cheap (free), some of us have paid dearly for that same education. There is not doubt in my mind that the "educational experience" will pay you dividends far into the future far exceeding the 65K "cost of tuition." I realize this may be close to salt on the wound to you right now, but in days to come you will see it and feel differently about the experience.but my downfall remains my emotional makeup Your 75% of the way there if you know what the problem is. Invest in a solution. XXX OOO <vbg> P.S. As a result of my experiences, I had net profits 10 of the last 11 years, with the average annual profit breaking 6 figures. I'd say I gotten a return on my "tuition dues." Keep the faith, pal.