To: Shoot1st who wrote (311 ) 6/18/2000 11:27:00 AM From: Janice Shell Respond to of 1576
She was taking Percoden for the sinus pain.... That may have been why she thought she was feeling better. Percodan is strong stuff, and could mask a lot of symptoms that should have been paid attention to. If you feel bad enough to take Percodan, you should realize that you're sick enough to see a doctor. I'm not being judgmental here. I'd probably have done the same thing. What's happened to Edwarda is, I'm afraid, to some extent the consequence of living alone. I suppose that all of us who do are aware of the problem. If you live with family, and you get sick, past a certain point they'll take charge. If they're worried enough, they'll make you see a doctor whether you want to or not. People who live alone are generally independent types, and tend to downplay problems, or to joke about them. You figure: well, yeah, I feel really lousy, but I've felt lousy other times, and nothing really bad's happened yet... Once last year when I had the flu I felt bad enough to wonder, sometime in the middle of the night, if maybe I'd made a dangerous mistake; if maybe I should have called someone or done something. Of course by then I felt too awful to bother. In my case, I was significantly better by the next day, but I think you see the psychology that's at work here. In addition, if she were bleeding internally, she may not have realized it, and might have taken aspirin for the headache, which would have exacerbated the bleeding. I don't know Edwarda as well as many of you do, and so I'm not sure how she'd have handled the situation. I know when I'm sick, I open the medicine closet and try whatever's there. Someone should take a look at what she's got at home, to see whether what she was taking might have made her illness worse, or whether she may have combined drugs that don't mix.