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To: haqihana who wrote (82628)6/21/2000 11:10:00 PM
From: Rainy_Day_Woman  Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 108807
 
haqihana~

why would you drag Edwarda's name into an argument?

what point does it serve?

why would you share pm's in which you state she said 'She asked me not to say anything' and then turn around when she is barely gone from us and post it publicly?

I think it is in poor taste and would ask you to refrain from dragging her name into this now or in the future

after all, she is not here to defend herself

but I am

please give her the respect she deserves

sherry



To: haqihana who wrote (82628)6/21/2000 11:21:00 PM
From: Rambi  Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 108807
 
Your honesty, which is called into question by your own admission now that you can't "remember" if it was X or maybe it was E-- is in my mind irrelevant.
You have violated the confidence of someone who trusted you, and who can't defend herself. You turn either her or yourself into a liar, because neither X nor E was in anyway involved in that situation.
Tell me Haqi, what did you hope to gain by such ugliness? What is this strange concept of PUBLIC CONFESSION that you have decided is necessary for someone whom only YOU have convicted? Who are you to decide what tears are real? What hearts do you see into with the eyes of God?

If sins are committed, they are between a person and his own conscience, they are not YOURS to judge or extract penance. What you did was try to hurt or embarrass others who make YOU angry. And in doing so you gave up something precious.
I'm not mad any longer- only sad for you.



To: haqihana who wrote (82628)6/21/2000 11:49:00 PM
From: E  Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 108807
 
I am not an attorney, haqihana. So you may leave me out of this.

When you are angry, haqi, you do and say terrible things. You will be sorry when you try to go to sleep tonight that you did this one.

Even if that statement contained some version of truth, that spewing of hate would have been a terrible thing for you to do at this time-- and for purposes of striking out against your "enemies" in an argument.

You may believe me when I tell you that Edwarda would have been horrified. Edwarda was a conciliator, and if you don't know that, you have failed to understand the first thing about her. Do you really think she would want you to rile people up, creating anger and bitterness, at this time?

Here are your words:

" She asked me not to say anything in order to keep the
peace between her and the others involved"

and in a time of mourning, you disregard her wishes because you hate others so much more than you loved Edwarda.

This was very wrong of you. Even in death, Edwarda is bringing people together! Have you not seen this! Have you not understood what was happening?

You used Edwarda. Used her as a weapon. I hope you have no success in undoing a small miracle she has performed on SI.

You had no right.



To: haqihana who wrote (82628)6/22/2000 12:31:00 AM
From: average joe  Respond to of 108807
 
Hey Judas! You are either a liar or betraying a confidence, either one should get you kicked off SI. I hope you get to cool your heels in a very hot place someday.