To: Brandon who wrote (9440 ) 7/6/2000 11:52:46 PM From: Apakhabar Respond to of 18137 Brandon, Your post was greatly appreciated. I believe traders like to hear stories like yours in the same way that normal peaceful people appreciate a good horror movie. I'm glad that you're successful enough to live through that. I like to think that I'm immune to the overnight dangers since I rarely hold anything overnight, but two weeks ago, I traded a tanking CRDS all day and lost a bundle, and somehow I convinced myself to hold 1000 shares overnight. As the vast majority of my trades involve 100-400 shares, this was completely reckless behavior, and I was rewarded the next day when the stock gapped down four points on the open. Losing the money hurt, sure, but what really hurt my feelings so to speak was that I deviated from my normal trading habits, something you mentioned doing as well. Part of being a successful trader (even a low-rent success like me) is living with minimal stress. Why do any of us trade FT if not to live life on our own terms? So put aside the money; a terrible by-product of bad trades that result from our "breaking our rules" is simply the feeling that we did something stupid. Brandon, I'm not at all saying you're stupid (the quality of your writing indicates otherwise) but I know the drill: we make a trade like that and we smack our heads and say, "How could be so....!" Bad traders wash out on mistakes like this. I don't believe anyone can help them and the truth is, those of us who survive need them to wash out and give us their dough. The point I want to make is that part of the good lifestyle is, as you say, sticking to the plan. By sticking to the plan, we can just shrug our shoulders when somebody says that you can't make money daytrading etc. Some may violently think this dumb, but from a quality-of-life standpoint, I have been been much happier on days when I made my $500 by sticking to my plan than I have been on days when I made $600 being ugly-lucky.