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To: KLP who wrote (11309)10/5/2000 1:18:39 PM
From: Cisco  Read Replies (3) | Respond to of 225578
 
Men seem to be able to talk "at" the other person/people...Don't know how many actually might change their mind because of the discourse. Most seem to be pretty well up and locked. Women will talk about it. But we do get emotional if someone won't at least try to understand why we think the way we do...

Interesting!

So did I strike an emotional cord with my one liner? Do you classify me as a talk at'er? Perhaps I will have to work on my image.<g> Maybe I need to lead with my heart a little more!

That being said, it is a lifelong observation and truly a disappointment to me that people, no matter where we are and how close to us they are, can't really talk about political issues without getting upset. (Thinking close friends, family, etc) I've never really figured out why that is.

Politics and religion are a lot alike! I oppose big government for the same reason I oppose fundamentalist religion. They both attempt to enslave their followers and make them co-dependent upon a system. To threaten the system is to threaten their security blanket. Listen to what Erich Fromm, William James, and others list as the functions of religion in society are and see if they can't be applied equally to government:


• to avoid error in order to escape punishment.
• to compensate for deprivations and suffering.
• to provide rules for correct behavior, to be perfect
so that the rewards are guaranteed.
• to maintain social control, often by the clergy or
others seeking power, and to salve the consciences of
those who abuse it.

Once a person has become co-dependent upon a belief or political system, they are by definition addicted to it. To challenge the object of anyone's addiction is to create excessive fear in that individual. Father Leo Booth in his book When God Becomes a Drug states that:

It slides into addiction the more it is used as a
nursing bottle to fix us. Psychiatrist N.S. Xavier, in
his book The Two Faces of Religion, say that
religious beliefs and practices become dysfunctional
when the "do not express healthy striving, but are
attempts to ward off repressed impulses."

He also makes the very important observation that when
an unhealthy belief or behavior is challenged, the
result is excessive fear. Anyone who has ever tried to
challenge a religious addict's belief system has
undoubtedly been met with a hostility bordering on fury.
People who are spiritually healthy will not react with
fear and anger to questions about their beliefs and
practices.

So I would suggest a similar etiology lies behind the reason many people have a hard time discussing both religion and politics.