To: Ilaine who wrote (56885 ) 12/9/2000 9:24:43 AM From: Rambi Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 71178 Tell Ben Good Luck!!! What a great experience for the kids. They're so lucky to have a real lawyer as a mom who is willing to help like that. 48 long!!!! AMmo is 6' and wears just a 40 long. He just left for a speech tournament all dressed up in his new suit. Dan took him out and spent a LOT on it. Several hundred, I think. And I suspect it may be because in law school we were very poor and the only suit we could afford when he had to have one for First Year Moot Court was a light blue one from this tacky little store. It cost 75.00. EVeryone was kind -- I think a professor finally explained to him that light blue suits weren't really appropriate for the court room. My mother finally bought him one when he made it to the Final Four. The winner, btw, was A GIRL and she was incredible. They all were, but she was brilliant. She was very, very quick and funny and an extremely nice person. Now that I think about it the final four were all not just very bright, but polite and LIKEABLE. The ones who were the arrogant, "Gotcha" types went down in early rounds. I've wondered how successful some of the self-proclaimed legal experts on Bush really are, the ones who are always saying "are you a lawyer?" to people before poo-pooing them, the way they refuse to listen, and often, the way they seem not to THINK. Plus some of them have regrettable grammar and spelling habits. There are two types of thinkers, according to a psychologist friend of mine-- the fast processors, the ones who shoot from the hip, whose thoughts fly from their brains out their mouths, and the ones who have to stop and pull it all together before speaking, who "translate" what they hear and say. We talked about this a lot when I tried serving on boards-- some of the women were just overwhelming, as if they had on-off buttons- MUST SPEAK FIRST, LOUDEST, FASTEST!!! I never could get a word in-- I have a soft voice and I am not at allllll assertive. If someone interrupts, I just shut up. I felt really stupid a lot of the time. It wasn't until I started writing that I realized I wasn't really that dumb. It's just that it takes me time to decide what I think is worth saying and get it out, and also a lot of loud, fast talking in an attack mode tends to intimidate and confuse me. I think a lot of people are like that and I hope Ben doesn't see it as a "fault". Talking is much over-rated. I bet he can write well. I had forgotten your dreams!!! EEEEk! THe voting dream doesn't surprise me in the least. If the Democrats read it, they will probably put you on the stand as an expert witness on how hard it is to tamper with chads. My marriage may be over before this election is.