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To: Lane3 who wrote (3735)1/27/2001 8:32:57 PM
From: epicure  Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 82486
 
You can teach everything to a willing student who has the intelligence to learn. We are lucky in that my son has a very good memory. If we role play with him he can memorize a given situation- the problem is he won't be able to generalize from that situation to one slightly different. So we have to role play as many possible situations as possible- teaching and mentioning body language for both him, and for the other person. For example- we say "if another person steps away from you- you were either too close or they don't like you- try to find a way to go do something else" (because he really can't tell the difference between people who are just uncomfortab;e with his closeness and people who really want to get away from him). And then we act out some different situations. We've told him not to do the punching thing boys do with each other- because he can't moderate his intensity, and he can't tell when it is in fun, or when the other kid is pissed off. If you've ever watched 3rd grade boys they are constantly touching each other- shoving, hitting, etc- but to do that, you need to be able to sense that you are doing it appropriately. My son is also very large for his age- which means he can hurt people accidently- so we take that into consideration too. Although being large has saved him from being physically picked on. Kids still pick on him verbally because he is different, though.

We go through magazines and movies constantly asking him to guess what the people are feeling or thinking- so we can get him cued in to memorizing what angry faces, and puzzled faces and happy faces etc look like. He is much better than he was. I cannot tell you how much improvement we've seen in the past year since we finally forced the school to put him in regular ed. And his academics are above grade level now for many subjects.



To: Lane3 who wrote (3735)1/27/2001 8:36:44 PM
From: epicure  Read Replies (2) | Respond to of 82486
 
On a lighter note, something you might enjoy. I liked these a lot:

> Redneck Hi Koo
>
> BEAUTY
> Naked in repose
> Silvery silhouette girls
> Adorn my mudflaps
>
> REMORSE
> A painful sadness
> Can't fit big screen TV through
> Double-wide's front door
>
> OPTIONS
> Unemployment's out.
> Hey, maybe I can git on
> Disability
>
> BLAZE
> Distant siren screams
> Dumb-ass Verne's been mowin' with
> Gasoline again
>
> A NEW MOON
> Flashlights pierce darkness
> No nightcrawlers to be found
> Guess we'll gig some frogs
>
> EXUBERANCE
> Joyous, playful, bright
> Trailer park girl rolls in puddle
> Of old motor oil
>
> ALONE
> Seeking solitude
> Carl's ex-wife Tammy files fer
> Restraining order
>
> DESIRE
> Damn, in that tube-top
> You make me almost fergit
> That you're my cousin
>
> HATRED
> I curse the rainbow
> Emblazoned upon his hood
> Goddamn Jeff Gordon
>
> OFFERINGS
> Tonight we hunger
> Grandma sent grocery money
> To Robert Tilton
>
> DRAMA
> Set the VCR
> Dukes of Hazard Marathon
> Starts at 9 O'Clock
>
> DEPRIVED
> In WalMart toy aisle
> Wailing boy wants rasslin' doll
> Mama whups his ass
>
> NO SIGNAL
> White noise, buzzing static
> Call Earl; the satellite dish
> Needs new descrambler
>
> IMPOUNDED
> Sixty-five dollars
> And cyclone fence keeps me from
> My El Camino
>
> GATHERING
> In early morning mist
> Mama searches Circle K for
> Moon Pies and Red Man
>
> PRIDE
> Grinning, he displays
> The nine hun'erd beer cans that
> Fill his pick-up bed
>
> haikus by Steve Earle
>
>