To: CharleyMike who wrote (22196 ) 8/15/2001 6:20:29 PM From: E Read Replies (2) | Respond to of 82486 I had one part time maid, mornings only, five days a week. She got a week off at Christmas, paid, to return to her home village, two weeks off, paid, of regular annual vacation, paid sick leave, and she could go back to her home village any time we were traveling. She took classes in the afternoon to get a GED. I was her tutor. She was 'allowed' to have visitors in her 'quarters' (amazingly, this was almost unheard of.) I paid her more than double what the municipal official who lived next door paid his 14 hour a day, 6 1/2 day per week servants. I have nothing to be ashamed of, and had remarkably little to get used to in the way of 'life style' change when, after five years, i returned to this country. Not the usual pattern. I knew expats in the country who would never have a maid again who raised their young children to kick off their shoes in the direction of the African maid, who was to scrape off any dirt and polish them before the children put them on again. I might mention, also, that I never locked a kitchen cupboard or cabinet, behavior that was considered strange to the point of mad for a white in Africa, and i believe nothing was ever taken from me. After my first maid left (having graduated and moved on), she brought her best friend to work for me, and when that woman was commanded by her husband to return to a remote village to take care of his parents and some relative's young children, she gave her best friend her job with me. I often think of the young woman who was ordered back to that remote place by her husband. She was one of the most beautiful women i've ever seen. I mean, a world class, breathtakingly beautiful, noble-looking yet voluptuous being. She seemed to have no idea. Talk about full many a flower being born to waste its fragrance in the desert air. The desert was the Kalahari. Edit: Americans, generically, were the most sought-after employers. Next came the Dutch. Last came the Batswana. This is generic, and of course there were bastard Americans and humane Batswana. The usual.