To: Poet who wrote (22665 ) 8/17/2001 1:50:24 PM From: The Philosopher Respond to of 82486 The very term "homophobe" is an interesting word. Coined by the homosexual interests movement to brand those who don't agree with their viewpoint as having a mental illness. Sort of tit-for-tat since it's only been a relatively brief time since homosexuality was included by DSM as a mental illness. But one abuse can't be excused by looking at another. But a poet, who cares about language, should IMO be careful about using the term. First of all, what does it actually mean? Should it be limited to someone who has an irrational fear? And fear of what -- the homosexual act itself, or the people who practice the homosexual act? There is a difference. The problem is that the movement has distorted the language around this issue so that it is virtually impossible to hold any nuanced positions. Either you totally accept, even if you don't practice, homosexuality and see it as a completely normal lifestyle to be taught as an equally valid lifestyle to the heterosexual lifestyle, or you are sick and evil. They have managed to completely cut out any middle ground. Which I think is a mistake, because what it has done is put people in the middle into the position of "hating sick evil opponent," polarized the issue, and eliminated much of the hope for rational discussion. We don't call people who look down on beastiality "beastophobes." We don't look on people who disapprove of pedophilia as "pedophobes." We don't lable people who argue that there is something unnatural about a religious lifestyle "religophobes." We don't label homosexuals who hate heterosexuals as "heterophobes." I think there is room for people who consider the exercise of homosexuality to be something they don't want to engage in and disapprove of, but accept the right of other people to do it if they must. Sort of like people who hunt. For me, that's an inappropriate lifestyles, not deviant exactly but not totally good, either. I don't much like associating with people for whom hunting is a passion. But I accept that it's their passion and if they want to do it, okay. Just don't ask me to approve of it or say "hunting is a fine, healthy, normal lifestyle and those who don't approve of it are sickos."