To: wlheatmoon who wrote (2653 ) 4/16/2002 2:51:02 PM From: John Pitera Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 2850 Hi Mike, I hope you and Brain have been well. here's a neat post that Mph had posted on another thread. STOP AND THINK ABOUT LIFE........ > > Too many people put off something that brings them joy just because they > haven't thought about it, don't have it on their schedule, didn't know > it was coming or are too rigid to depart from their routine. > > I got to thinking one day about all those women on the Titanic who > passed up dessert at dinner that fateful night in an effort to cut back. > > >From then on, I've tried to be a little more flexible. > > How many women out there will eat at home because their husband didn't > suggest going out to dinner until after something had been thawed? > Does the word "refrigeration" mean nothing to you? > > How often have your kids dropped in to talk and sat in silence while you > watched Jeopardy! on television? > > I cannot count the times I called my sister and said, "How about going > to lunch in a half hour?" She would gasp and stammer, "I can't. I have > clothes on the line. My hair is dirty. I wish I had known yesterday, I > had a late breakfast, It looks like rain." And my personal favorite > "It's Monday." > She died a few years ago. We never did have lunch together. > > Because Americans cram so much into their lives, we tend to schedule our > headaches. We live on a sparse diet of promises we make to ourselves > when all the conditions are perfect. We'll go back and visit the > grandparents when we get Stevie toilet-trained. > > We'll entertain-when we replace the living-room carpet. > > We'll go on a second honeymoon when we get two more kids out of college. > > Life has a way of accelerating as we get older. The days get shorter, > and the list of promises to ourselves gets longer. > > One morning, we awaken, and all we have to show for our lives is a > litany of "I'm going to," "I plan on" and "Someday, when things are > settled down a bit." > > When anyone calls my 'seize the moment! ' friend, she is open to > adventure and available for trips. She keeps an open mind on new ideas. > > > > Her enthusiasm for life is contagious. You talk with her for five > minutes, and you're ready to trade your bad feet for a pair of > Rollerblades and skip an elevator for a bungee cord. > > My lips have not touched ice cream in 10 years. I love ice cream. > It's just that I might as well apply it directly to my hips with a > spatula and eliminate the digestive process. > > The other day, I stopped the car and bought a triple-decker. If my car > had hit an iceberg on the way home, I would have died happy. > > Now...go on and have a nice day. Do something you WANT to......not > something on your SHOULD DO list. > > If you were going to die soon and had only one phone call you could > make, who would you call and what would you say? And why are you > waiting? > > Make sure you read this to the end; you will understand why I sent this > to you. > > Have you ever watched kids playing on a merry go round. Or listened to > the rain lapping on the ground? > > Ever followed a butterfly's erratic flight or gazed at the sun into the > fading night? > > You better slow down. Don't dance so fast. Time is short. The music > won't last. > > Do you run through each day on the fly? > > When you ask, "How are you?" Do you hear the reply? > > When the day is done, Do you lie in your bed with the next > hundred chores running through your head? > > Ever told your child, We'll do it tomorrow, And in your haste, not see > his sorrow? > > Ever lost touch? Let a good friendship die? Just call to say "Hi"? > > You'd better slow down. Don't dance so fast. Time is short. The music > won't last. When you run so fast to get somewhere, you miss half the fun > of getting there. > > When you worry and hurry through your day, It is like an unopened > gift....Thrown away... Life is not a race. Take it slower. Hear the > music before the song is over. > > It's National Friendship Week. Show your friends how much you care. > > Send this to everyone you consider a FRIEND. If it comes back to you, > then you'll know you have a CIRCLE OF FRIENDS! > > Thanks for being my friend. > > THE PRECEDING WAS SENT TO ME AND NOW I FORWARD IT TO YOU FOR THE VERY > SAME REASON!