To: RR who wrote (47353 ) 2/4/2002 10:17:10 PM From: Ex-INTCfan Read Replies (2) | Respond to of 65232 RR, very good post. I do much of the same -- attacking stuff one thing at a time, hardly ever a day alike. One of the things I've done differently in the last couple of years is take time out to just "be" -- playing with the cats, watching squirrels chase each other around trees -- that sort of thing. Sometimes I just say "today is a golf day" and hit the links. Even there it is a choice between striving to do the best I can and just enjoying the round. Some rounds are a mixture of both, some are one or the other. The ones that are a mixture are the ones I like best -- some of my best rounds have been in the cold and howling wind and rain, when I have to think about each shot, execute, watch, and learn. I'm really relaxed when this happens because I'm one of the few idiots on the course and nobody is holding me up or pushing me from behind. (Plus, I can hold greens that usually behave like teflon for me.) The sheer joy I had a couple of weeks ago on a rainy par 5 dogleg when I blasted the ball about as far as I could into the crosswind and watched the ball get carried by the wind 30 yards to the left up the dogleg, leaving a short iron to the green, is difficult to explain. I couldn't do that kind of thing when I was 21 after playing for 10 years, and now I can do it at 43. Go figure. People always used to say that life gets worse as you get older, but it seems to get better, aside from the odd ache that I don't remember from before. I probably have posted this before, but if anyone out there is in a job they do not enjoy, they should leave. I have never been happier than I am now, getting up each day trying to figure out how to best create the day. It's a bit like running for runners, in the sense that the more you run the more refreshed you feel. After I bang out four miles I want to do another four, and that's what my career feels like to me now that I'm on my own. I want to thank you for a most thought provoking post. I'm still absorbing it, and my brief note above doesn't due justice to either your post or what I believe I will get out of it after musing it a bit more. Ex-INTCfan