To: Lane3 who wrote (11330 ) 2/28/2002 9:03:21 PM From: J. C. Dithers Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 28931 Open-mindedness. What does that mean in the context of religious beliefs? I've been thinking about that, Karen. On this venue, every word we say is inscribed onto the tableau, always retrievable to anyone interested. Words and expressions of others remain before us, for as long as we choose, for contemplation. We thus gradually establish etched positions, as do those who correspond with us. We find ourselves defending not just positions, but each and every word or thought we have uttered. The result, I think, is that our interactions are based more on perceptions of who we are, rather than upon what exactly we say at a given time. I believe most of us are always in a defensive mode here, which defeats "open-mindedness." In that sense, I think we are always "testifying" rather than "discussing," or perhaps, even listening. Does that make any sense at all? Oh s..t, that's what I was afraid of. To tell you the honest truth, I have had much too much red wine tonight. Could you take another look? Isn' t there anything there? Let me take another tack. I know what you mean about insisting on the "Truth." Let's face it, that does kind of discourage discussion. Truthfully, I'm the last person to insist that I know the truth. In fact, as some of my recent posts here (the more lucid ones) suggest, it is the very fact that I admit I don't the truth that leads me to my faith. I'm probably not even going to get any credit for it when the time comes, seeing as how I arrived at it. Anyway, I like you a lot. As far as I am concerned, you and I have no problems, and I always enjoy repartee with you. I'm fine, honestly, with whatever you believe. I've got enough problems with my own beliefs. Hope that squares us. JC