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To: Clappy who wrote (11358)3/1/2002 1:26:09 AM
From: elpolvo  Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 104159
 
dr. freud-

freudian theory likes to get a little
complex for me and tries to define psychological
phenomena in terms like ego, id and superego.
trouble is, you have to buy into the whole
freudian theory for those things to be
meaningful. i don't buy it. mainly because
the theory doesn't have much of a payoff...
it doesn't get me to the "big self".

i'm a KISS type of dude (keep it simple señor).

to simplify...
"id" is supposed to be instinct and "superego" is
supposed to be conscience... if these things are
beyond conscious thought then they're not useful
to me as something to consciously think about anyway...
so i just toss 'em in the box marked "things for other
people like freud to think about".

i just have two concepts to mess wif...
the "little self"... and the "big self". i use the
fruedian term "ego" because most everyone's familiar wif
it and the definition fits the "little self". if
you were to draw a line or border around everything
that you define as "you", the "ego", or little "self",
is everything inside that boundary. this includes
your body but EXCLUDES mine and pamela anderson's...
and the fire hydrant on the corner. your mind
and thoughts are a little harder to draw the line
around... and your spirit is the hardest of all to
outline. BUT... wherever you place that border,
it defines your "ego" or "little self".

the "big self" includes EVERYTHING IN THE UNIVERSE.
YES!... this includes PAMELA ANDERSON'S BODY!!!!!!!

the "big self" is the concept millions of people
call "God" or "Allah" or "Father Sky - Mother Earth",
the ultimate "Big Kahuna", "El Jefe", "Dios",
"Nature", "The Universe" or "The Collective Self".

how do you identify with the "big self"? THAT is the
question. how do you dissolve the "ego" boundaries?
LSD? accept Christ as your savior? vision quest?
peyote? have an epiphany? be born again? go sailing?
go golfing? skiing? enlightenment?... you won't get
there through the intellect... or from anything i might
write.

Does Id have anything to do with the collective self?

it's IN THERE.

How does one get Super Ego to stay off the inner couch
and stay focused and motivated to keep Id on track?
Instead of letting him try to seek instant gratification
in anything he begins discovering an interest in?


don't fight desire. it's the natural motivator.
follow your bliss... eventually, it will take you to
the "big self" via your perfect path, the one that
is right for you, the one you can trust.

my path has included a lot of BEER, NAKED LADIES, and SPORTS.

-el viejo