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To: Neocon who wrote (325)	3/1/2002 8:08:02 AM
From: jlallen	Read Replies (1) \| Respond to of 21057

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To: Neocon who wrote (325)	3/1/2002 8:13:00 AM
From: jlallen	Read Replies (2) \| Respond to of 21057

Circumstances vary. I would never presume to judge harshly someone who had been married for quite awhile and had a discreet affair that happened to come to light, not knowing the subtleties of the situation. Hogwash says I. If you've got a problem with your spouse in the old bedroom dept. then you owe the spouse the courtesy to discuss the matter and try to resolve it. If it is not resolvable then you need to make the spouse aware of that and either move on (ie, divorce - which I do not beleive is proper when children are involved) or learn to live with it. Affairs are just plain selfish and hurt the people who are deceived, deeply and permanently. They are the number one leading cause of marriage dissolutions. Cheaters get absolutely no sympathy nor understanding from me. JLA