To: Neocon who wrote (2495 ) 3/14/2002 9:22:32 PM From: E Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 21057 May I say that I consider most of that post self-dramatizing bull shit, tendentious misrepresentation, and specious argument? To me, they may as well be Jew- haters, even granting they do not limit themselves, but despise those with some religious belief (most of their fellow men) pretty equally. Instead of admitting that there may be sympathetic reasons for belief, First, out of curiosity: Are you by any chance including me among those who haven't "admitted" that there may be sympathetic reasons for belief? Because I'd hate to waste the time doing it, but I can remind you with links to posts that I have, myself, many times expressed myself as understanding belief in a sympathetic way. Which is not to say I buy any of the conflicting beliefs offered as truth by the religious, or that I am sympathetic to anyone for wanting to shove theirs down the throats of nonbelievers, but that is of course not what you said. You imply that there is a significant constituency here of haters-of-their-fellow man (and not the constituency of haters that is to be found on the RWET.) About this characterization as it might relate to me, since I am one of the outspoken atheists: Most recently, and maybe this will ring a bell, I talked with sympathy and understanding about all human beings needing "meaning" in their lives. I discussed a specific experience I had had in which I was one of a group of women who had in common a similar family tragedy, and who all except me were religious. I said that it was clear to me that they were strengthened by the conviction that although they didn't know what the "reason" for this tragedy befalling them (we all had an afflicted child), there was a reason, and that God knew it; and for that reason, they should (and could) accept what had happened to us all in a way I couldn't. I said I had envied them, that it was clearly harder in a deep way for me, but that in the end, I came through too. That's paraphrase. If you don't recall it, someone else may. And who, exactly, "despises those with religious belief"? That's a tendentious, inflammatory claim that personal hatred and animosity have been displayed for "those with religious belief" because they have religious beliefs. Who on SI "despises" persons for having beliefs as opposed to despising certain persons for attitudes and behaviors toward others? Who? Is there any atheist poster on SI who doesn't have sympathetic SI-friendships or respectful exchanges with with believers? I think you can't take much critical commentary, if you are rendered so very hyperbolic and hurt and huffy over "imaginary friend" remarks. If you're sure of your ground, what's so upsetting? I'm not upset at the insults to me as an atheist, the repeated implication over the years that I can't be the possessor of morals, for example. Or that I am a baby-killer because I don't believe a fertilized ovum possesses a "soul" and therefore that those who do believe this shouldn't rule the uteruses of those who don't, but only of their own. You got carried away with your own self-righteous rhetoric, and it resulted in dishonest casemaking imo. I suggest you should stand up and fight for your beliefs like a man, not whine and make self-pitying crap up. What you believe isn't sacrosanct, though the religious seem often to believe it should be. If you can't stand the heat, get out of the disputational kitchen, I'd suggest. "Imaginary friend" bothers you? Sheesh. Then stop imagining one, why don't you. <g> BTW, I don't think you should pay any attention to pressure not to post to CH. I respect you for sticking by a friend. If we all dropped friends who had behaved badly, even very badly, we'd all be lonely.