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To: jcky who wrote (7419)4/6/2002 11:20:52 AM
From: epicure  Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 21057
 
I don't think the goal is to strip people
but more to take one belief off and look at it
they can put it back on later, or move some other ones around to cover the bare spot

we never examine all beliefs at once
we take a few at a time
but you are right
if we care we will learn who not to push, and of course, those who do not care to be sensitive, have every right not to learn that



To: jcky who wrote (7419)4/6/2002 3:29:37 PM
From: Poet  Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 21057
 
Now this is interesting:
But it is inevitable that when certain beliefs and ideas are challenged, some people will take this as a personal affront.

I think the key is to recognize who these people are and to back away when they feel threatened. Give them a bit of breathing room. Of course, some of the best discussions occur when views are challenged and pushed to the edge of the bubble. You'll just have to know the limits of your cohorts thru continual debate.


Is it possible that one could disagree strongly with a statement and not be personally offended?

And is it is somehow wrong, intellectually immature, or embarrassing to have "cherished beliefs" as you call them?



To: jcky who wrote (7419)4/6/2002 3:54:00 PM
From: Solon  Read Replies (4) | Respond to of 21057
 
Religious persuasions generally have a huge reservoir of textual dogma which may be criticized by non believers. Conversely, there is little which may be critized in an atheist or secular humanist OTHER THAN their non-belief. Therefore, the secularist gets the (perhaps unfair) advantage in having a target of almost unlimited size to criticize, whereas the "believer", when he is not defending--generally is able to attack only the person or the character of his opponent.

Of course, the secularist may attack either, and sometimes does. But it is an interesting dynamic. The basic criticism against the non believer (regardless of how moral or exalted is his/her character and values) ultimately must come down to the fact that he is an "infidel" and "Godless"...and, of course "blasphemous"...for not sharing the particular religious belief of the person he is talking to.