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To: J. C. Dithers who wrote (9888)	4/19/2002 9:50:20 AM
From: Poet	Read Replies (1) \| Respond to of 21057

Oh, I saw your answer about oral sex. (And by the way, fellatio is only half that story) It's OK to stick your penis into a woman's mouth, but don't come, is that right? It is an act of lust, not of love. It is an act of brutality that shows zero respect for the sanctity of a woman's body. It is an animalistic act that represents for men domination and possession of a woman's body as a "thing." I understand that you feel this way about anal sex, but many people don't. E doesn't. Neither do a number of her heterosexual female friends. And neither do I or many of my friends. If you are talking to "E," you might ask her just how she knows that many women enjoy this act. It may be that has taken a survey. I suggest you ask E this question. But if I were she, I'd be a little creeped out by your fascination with the details of why she has that opinion. And this one cracks me up: What these men think about such women is left to our imagination. You know, my mother used to say the same thing about women who chewed gum in public. In the end, JC, no one is suggesting that you engage in anal sex if you find it abhorrent. I certainly wouldn't do anything sexual that I found abhorrent. It's a private matter.

To: J. C. Dithers who wrote (9888)	4/19/2002 1:00:19 PM
From: E	Read Replies (1) \| Respond to of 21057

As to my view of heterosexual anal sex: It is an act of lust, not of love. It is an act of brutality that shows zero respect for the sanctity of a woman's body. It is an animalistic act that represents for men domination and possession of a woman's body as a "thing." Any nonconsensual sexual act is accurately described that way. You have chosen one act, an act that some enjoy and you don't, to describe that way. You asked how I know "many" women enjoy it. I haven't taken a poll, I just figure that if I personally have three female friends who tell me they enjoy it (or have at some point, with some person, under certain circumstances), I have no reason to disbelieve them. If you think masturbation is fine and contraception is fine, then I don't get why you have a problem with oral sex that ends with orgasm, but hey. My guess is that deep down you just think it's perverted. My whole point is that imo it is a dubious proposition for anyone to take a morally condemnatory stance against sexual acts engaged in and enjoyed by consenting, responsible adults. Any act not consensual and responsibly engaged in is bad. The legitimate concern about anal sex imo is that it is becoming so trendy that unsophisticated women are going to feel pressured into it by lummoxes, and may be seriously hurt by it.