To: Original Mad Dog who wrote (18159 ) 7/24/2002 7:56:09 AM From: Lane3 Respond to of 21057 You can object to the question, but if it's asked and you can't get the question thrown out, then you either tell the truth or commit a felony. Any other message is an invitation to all witnesses to make it up whenever they are offended by the question. Let me start out by saying clearly that I'm not disagreeing with you. In the final analysis, you tell the truth under oath. However, I have a lot of sympathy for people who are asked inappropriate questions under oath. I've been asked about my sex life under oath when it was clear, to me, that it was out of line. I can't begin to tell you the outrage I felt. I've posted about this experience before. The situation I was in was that I was a manager in an office where there was an EEO complaint about a hiring decision. I had no involvement in the hiring decision. The EEO folks used the complaint to go on a fishing expedition, including fishing for sexual hanky panky, even though the allegation was one of race and had nothing to do with sex. Every manager in the office was asked under oath if he or she had EVER had sexual relations with ANYONE who had EVER been employed anywhere in the ENTIRE FEDERAL AGENCY (which shall remain unnamed). I answered no. I, fortunately, was able to do so truthfully to the best of my knowledge. I recall a lot of discussion among us "victims" about the relative merits of lying or telling the truth. I understand completely how people can think it's OK to lie when you are asked entirely inappropriate personal questions that are none of anyone's business. This experience has given me some ability to relate to how Clinton reacted by lying initially. I'm not condoning his lying about it under oath, as I said earlier, but I can relate to his sense of outrage at the overzealousness and intrusion of the prosecutors.