To: Lane3 who wrote (65688 ) 11/4/2002 4:31:21 PM From: one_less Read Replies (4) | Respond to of 82486 I concur, with much of what you posted. We were at the door of resolution. There appeared to be a very lonely and ready to reconcile CH."Had Poet"s "defenders" taken a more measured tack, it's likely that X would have stayed out of it or brought a different position. Instead she jumped in with both feet, and with some excesses of her own. And here we are." As I recall you sponsord X to return to the moderated thread. This didn't work out too well and soon she was finding a forum here almost exclusively engaging CH. Neocon and you gradually joined in the discussions and later many of the rest of us. The old issues began to leak in and out of many of the topical discussions and eventually as you say "here we are" .... again. It appears to me that there is a little more to the story. CH and X have enormous drive and ambition to succeed but few qualms about how they accomplish their objectives. They are focussed. They deal with conflicting evidence, by selective perception, compartmentalising, rationalising, by attacking its credibility, or by demonising the messengers. They are more likely to disregard the interests of others when presented with conflict. In the case of CH he is very likely to write you into agreement and commaradaree where none has been established, even going to the extent of obvious misinterpretation of posts. I have seen posters tricked into a temporary posture of loyalty over this only do disappear when they see through the ruse. Whether any of the counter claims are true or not (ie. poet is manipulative, jla is harsh, Laz and others are loyal to one another as a group or gang or whatever, etc etc), there is one problem that is at the crux of this. CH is not being forthright and genuine. He is including all of us in his scenario and we can either allow it or call it what it is. It may be different things to different people. It may be about victimizing Poet to some, sillyness to some, sociopathic behavior to others. It is definitely a house of cards built on deceit that almost all recognize and only one or two enable at its foundation.