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To: one_less who wrote (4369)2/13/2003 12:37:33 PM
From: Rambi  Read Replies (3) | Respond to of 7720
 
Even the staunch advocates of the service doubted the timeliness of the suicide. They felt it may have been, too soon.

But isn't that precisely the point? That HE gets to decide when he wants to exit-- Not others with different opinions, different beliefs, different values? Perhaps for this man, the time was exactly right. He was ready. Didn't WANT to begin the decline, have his faculties and abilities erode, saw no reason in waiting for some arbitrary moment that he saw as now but others defined as later.

I have no idea what it "right" and "wrong" in this case, but it is exactly that kind of second guessing and willingness to impose one's own judgment on another regarding such personal issues that disturbs me. (Not that you did this in any way-- I'm speaking generally) This doesn't mean that we don't question and examine and discuss and try to sway, but ultimately, these decisions should be left to individuals as much as possible (imo). I don't believe they are made lightly or quickly for the most part and we err when we assume such a lack of depth on the part of others, thinking only we are capable of wisdom and truth.

I do wonder about allowing someone with a serious condition like schizophrenia to make the decision.

And may I add that you all discuss these issues very politely and thoughtfully here, with depth and reason- this thread is the only other one I read right now regularly.



To: one_less who wrote (4369)2/13/2003 6:24:49 PM
From: Ish  Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 7720
 
<<They tracked the case of a cute elderly man who was diagnosed as terminal but seemed to have all of his faculties and in general was doing ok at the time of his death.>>

But what was he looking at a month down the road? Maybe he thought it would be a good day to die, business taken care of and before lots of pain and loss of dignity.