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To: RR who wrote (57644)4/1/2003 2:07:59 AM
From: Sully-  Respond to of 65232
 
RR, my wife still is troubled by the events of that
evening. She is a devoted Christian. The fact that all she
thought about that night was that she wanted to confront
that woman & tell her off made her feel quite guilty.

On the other hand, she's glad we had our little discussion
when we got home that night. She had also been deeply
troubled by the prospect of war, even though she felt that
Bush made a compelling case for the use of force when
endless diplomacy utterly failed. She simply couldn't
understand why they couldn't find a peaceful way to settle
the dispute.

Our discussion about how we both handled the same problem
differently helped her understand that others don't see the
world through her tolerant, non-violent & caring eyes. We
both were the same type of students in school. We both
tried to avoid conflict as best we could for many years. I
drew a line in the sand when everything non-violent I tried
failed to make the verbal & physical abuse stop. My wife
didn't do that. She just couldn't understand why they
didn't see things the way she saw them.

It's obvious to her now that she needed to stand up to
those bullies. Unfortunately, the scars she bears are the
price she paid for clinging to an unrealistic belief.