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To: RR who wrote (58830)7/31/2003 4:51:22 PM
From: Sully-  Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 65232
 
Rick, I'm not a gloom & doom type. I'm a glass is half full
type. No doubt the last few years has tested me mightily as
I've been hit with a number of unfortunate things. I've
been down right despondent at times & had something new
smack me down further. Somehow, I've still managed to pick
myself up, dust myself off & start moving forward. No doubt
some of that has been seen in some of my postings here on
SI. But I've still managed to regain a positive outlook on
life in the end.

Heck, there have been times when I felt like throwing in
the towel..... yet, out of nowhere my blues would
disappear & my mood would brighten on it's own...... it's
just not in my nature to be down & out.

One thing my dad taught me well is about personal
resposibility. Sometimes circumstances can knock you down &
keep hitting you before you can get off the floor. Sooner
or later you have to make up your mind that you're not
going to stay there & let it get the best of you..... cause
if you do, what's there to look forward to??? You only get
one chance at life. There ain't any do overs.

I've always looked at it this way...... you can find
solutions or you can make excuses. If you decide to be
solution oriented, you will see problems as an opportunity
to be solved. If you are excuse oriented, you see & often
create problems, sometimes where none really exist. The
excuse oriented use problems, real or imagined, as an
excuse to sit around & bitch & moan. Solution oriented
folks tend to be the successful ones.

No doubt I've allowed circumstances to keep me down
recently. I've even allowed excuses to keep me down. But
that doesn't last for long. Somehow that inner self
manifests itself & brings me back to focus properly again.

I did have help this time however.

Your post about your wife reminded me of how much my wife
has been such an angel since my knee surgery & the lower
back problems that hit me out of the blue. It really
incapacitated me & left me in pain 24/7. My orthopedic
surgeon didn't paint much of a bright picture for how much
my knee would improve. My primary care physician was
talking about injections & possible surgery for those
narrowed disks in my back if therapy didn't improve things.

My wife was all over the internet learning about various
knee braces, glucosamine & such. She makes sure I take my
glucosamine & prescriptions every day. She found a knee
brace designed for meniscus injuries. She forced me to
practically wear heating pads until I cooked was medium
rare, then she'd ice me down. She makes sure I do my rehab
exercises every day. She got us memberships at eh WMCA so I
could use their pool for water exercises, etc., etc., etc.

She has been reason enough for me to get over my blues &
get back to finding solutions to my problems.

As you can see Rick, I'm also quite a lucky guy.