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To: Sultan who wrote (158)8/16/2003 1:14:59 AM
From: HG  Respond to of 536
 
I particularly liked this section, esp the highlighted bits...

Seven ways to cultivate a mental attitude that will bring you peace and happiness

1.Let's fill our minds with thoughts of peace, courage, health, and hope, for "our life is what our thoughts make it."
2.Let's never try to get even with our enemies, because if we do we will hurt ourselves far more than we hurt them.
Let's do as General Eisenhower does: let's never waste a minute thinking about people we don't like.
3.
A.Instead of worrying about ingratitude, let's expect it. Let's remember that Jesus healed ten lepers in one
day--and only one thanked Him. Why should we expect more gratitude than Jesus got?
B.Let's remember that the only way to find happiness is not to expect gratitude--but to give for the joy of giving.
C.Let's remember that gratitude is a "cultivated" trait; so if we want our children to be grateful, we must train
them to be grateful.
4.Count your blessings--not your troubles!
5.Let's not imitate others. Let's find ourselves and be ourselves, for "envy is ignorance" and "imitation is suicide."
6.When fate hands us a lemon, let's try to make a lemonade.
7.Let's forget our own unhappiness--by trying to create a little happiness for others. "When you are good to others, you are best to yourself."

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To this, I'd like to add some thing from a friendly discussion yesterday -

If the bad don't stop being bad, and the mean don't stop being mean, and tormentors don't stop tormenting, and thugs don't stop being thugs, and a scorpion doesn't stop stinging - then why should the good stop being good ?