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To: one_less who wrote (75093)9/19/2003 10:51:54 AM
From: The Philosopher  Respond to of 82486
 
"His belief is that it is wrong to put people into a situation
where there is a reasonable possibility that they could become sexualized
inapropriately. I thought we agreed that it is always inapropriate in this setting. Why
he, you, I think it is inapropriate is not the issue."


If there is reason to believe that with a given individual there is a reasonable possibility that they could become sexualized inappropriately, that's fine. What he's saying is that EVERY woman and EVERY homosexual man has a "reasonable possibility" that they could become sexualized inappropriately. That's called prejudice -- prejudgment. It's like saying that you won't hire any black people because statistically they are more likely to commit crimes and thus steal from you than white people. No can do.

He has to have some basis other than simply gender or sexual preference to believe that there is a reasonable possibility that this particular client coud become sexualized inappropriately (every 90 year old woman with arthritis who comes in to get their joints massged to relieve the pain is reasonably likely to become sexualized inappropriately? Yeah, right. And how about six year old girls who are not yet at puberty but have medical needs for massage? Any inappropriate sexualization is going to be on his part, not theirs.)

Basically, you originally presented a case of a man who on religious grounds didn't want to treat ANY women or ANY homosexual men. Then you found that wouldn't fly and started positing the case on the sexual grounds. But still you can't make the blanked assumption that ALL women are reasonably likely to be inappropriately sexualized by a massage. Unless you are prepared to state here that it's your belief that there's a reasonable possibility that Karen and X would both respond that way to a massage. You want to make that claim? If not, they're fully entitled to get massages from your guy.)

BTW, if that's really his criteria -- then he must accept lesbian women as clients because there is no reasonable possibility that a man will inappropriately sexualize them. If he objects to homosexual men, then he can't object to lesbian women.