To: Solon who wrote (77451 ) 10/13/2003 2:37:16 AM From: one_less Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 82486 ”So you would accept that no harm is no harm. Unless a client has some sort of hang-up about getting sexually aroused, he/she will not feel damaged or injured by the happenstance of arousal.” “Hang-up,” is a values laden judgmental term that either side of that equation could levy toward the other.”So the claim of injury is from Moho and for Moho--correct? Moho respects the autonomy and freedom of conscience of others not to claim that they were injured--correct?” Correct. There were a couple of things that were unclear in your hypothetical. You said that you are not a homo-sexual male but a bi-sexual male. A bi-sexual male involved sexually with another male is participating in homosexuality. Are you suggesting this is some sort of loop hole? It is of course functionally not. The other thing that was unclear is that you said you became aroused while on the massage table receiving services from mojo. You did not make it clear whether mojo was the object of your sexual interest or whether it was a fantasy about some third party. I assume it was not mojo but if so, yes, harm is attributed to and for mojo ... If you are claiming that it is no problem for you, then your ethics are not violated and I can see no reason to attribute harm to or for you. We have already discussed that the only issue mojo has is when the arousal involves the two people in the session, one being the object of sexual interest of the other. In addition we discussed the possibility of arousal that was a passing fantasy that did not involve mojo. In this situation mojo would consider it an awkward moment and manage the session toward a non-sexual therapeutic outcome, or if that did not seem practical, end the session. However, saying you are a bi-sexual means that you involve yourself sexually with other men in homo-sexual experiences. That is enough to violate mojo’s issue of conscience and that should have been apparent via the earlier discussion. In the event that mojo is involved with sexualizing someone inappropriately his ethic is violated. ”So the claim of injury is from Moho and for Moho--correct? Moho respects the autonomy and freedom of conscience of others not to claim that they were injured--correct? Mojo’s operation is designed to serve persons who hold the same moral ethic regarding sexualized services that he does. You apparently do not, yet you ended up on the massage table anyway. This would have to be due to some misunderstanding or miscommunication regarding the ethics of service delivery on which mojo’s service is founded. In this unique and rare circumstance, if the object of the sexual arousal was mojo, the harm would be attributed to and for mojo and as you say not to or for you. He failed in his responsibility to adequately select appropriate clients and had become implicit in an innapropriately sexualized session while the client was on his table.