To: Ilaine who wrote (13917 ) 10/26/2003 4:56:50 PM From: Rambi Respond to of 793624 Re: Clinging to life- the drive to survive seems to continue in our bodies long after the point when conscious thought gives out. I think making an informed decision in advance that you don't want to survive in that state, even if your body is willing to go on for years artificially sustained, is understandable and should be respected. Lke you, I would care for my child as long as he was warm and breathing and fight to the end to do so, unless he had left very specific instructions to the contrary. I can imagine making no other choice. But I think that we need to be very, very careful about the circumstances and decisions about someone who has left no directives. Careful to the point of erring on the other side, if need be, which is why I said what I did yesterday. Which says nothing absolute about anything, I know, except the way I feel. I don't know if Kevorkian is evil or not. I have always assumed he believed absolutely in what he did. That kind of belief is very alien to the way my brain works. I see in later posts you have started taking this much farther- bringing in Alzheimer's and the profoundly retarded. Do we make any distinction between the indefinite use of feeding tubes and life support on people with black holes where their cerebral cortex used to be and these types of cases? You mentioned that Terri is young and strong. Dan;s grandmother was in a nursing home in her 90s and a feeding tube was inserted without the family's permission. Then when they objected, they were told that the tube could not legally be removed once it was in. The woman was completely unaware of anything by that time and her own body had been shutting itself down gracefully, and here come the doctors, keeping it alive actually against its own will. This seems ridiculous and unnatural to me. Do we make exceptions then for old age? Slippery slopes for sure. I often feel like we're skiing down a black run with no poles.