To: greenspirit who wrote (17512 ) 11/24/2003 11:46:42 PM From: KLP Respond to of 793801 We have this myth that at some time in our past parents were totally involved with every aspect of their children's education. So we blame parents today for our failed school system. The truth is schools and teachers were given more freedom to discipline and set standards in the past. When a child failed the grade, they failed the darn grade! Parents of 60 and 50 years ago were interested n their children's school work...BUT they were also dealing with the Great Depression, and fighting WWII, the Korean War, and working to make ends meet. Most women hadn't gone to the workplace, other than during WWII, when so many of the men had to go to war to protect our country. The kids understood that, and I believe, most of them tried to do their part at home. Most did not get a TV until the mid-late 40's or later. The parents, mostly Moms as the Dads couldn't get off from work, went to parent-teacher conferences to see what the kids were doing, or not as the case might have been. Most parents didn't do the homework, just made sure it was done. About the only time any parent was in the classroom in those years was as a Room Mother for special parties, or to go on a field trip. Kids flunked classes if they didn't do well in them, and had to re-do the classes, even if it hurt their little ego's. If they were naughty in class, they had to go to the principals' office. Heaven forbid that happened, because most of us knew there would be "trouble in River City" when we got home... Parents and teachers were partners, mostly. Most often, the teachers had the kids longer than did the parents during the week. Bad habits learned at school would not have been tolerated at home, and vice versa. Yes, there are many things different from that time than today. Some good, and some not so good.