To: michael97123 who wrote (17580 ) 11/24/2003 6:21:03 PM From: Lane3 Read Replies (2) | Respond to of 793843 How cavalier of you to tell them not to have kids. Yeah, that sounds like "let them eat cake" but I think I can get away with it because I chose not to have any. It is a legitimate choice. It is not a legitimate choice to procreate and expect others to support one's offspring. We plan and work hard for what we want in life. If we want to have families, then we have to apply ourselves so that we can get better jobs, not just say "duh, look what popped out" and expect the world to genuflect. Another story about my father. He and his buddies would hang out at the club where this one guy expected everyone to buy him drinks because he had six kids and didn't have spare money for drinks. My father had one kid, because that was what he could afford. He used to rant about that guy all the time. It is in the interest of the species to correct this imbalance. That was a topic of discussion the other day. I have yet to hear any reason why populations need to grow, other to bail us out from the welfare systems we have injudiciously set up. I am not asking for anyones sympathy. I know you weren't. Actually, I'm not unappreciative of the problems of escalating costs, but I react badly to suggestions that we put more welfare systems into place.The escalating cost of college, child care, medical insurance, housing etc We've also talked here about one of the reasons for escalating medical costs is "insurance" coverage where people develop expectations of getting the best treatments with money being no object. If people were paying for their own medical bills, costs would not be so high. What we need is real insurance, catastrophic insurance, to cover calamities, which is what insurance is supposed to be, not these medical plans we call "insurance" but are really medical coverage plans. I went to college on full scholarship. I had a National Merit Scholarship, a NJ state scholarship, a local one through my community, and one from the college itself. I got my graduate degree some ten years later when I was earning enough to pay for it myself. There used to be a lot of scholarships available. Charitable giving decreases as government programs increase. FWIW, I still plan to put some kid through college to repay my debt. Just haven't found the right situation yet.SS taken from the non-needy old can be transferred to the needy young. Means testing SS has been on the table for a long time. I have problems with penalizing those who have planned ahead and saved to supplement their Social Security. That's the wrong message to send, IMO. I'd rather see the retirement age raised. As for the needy young, if you're talking about people who are disabled or down on their luck, that would be fine with me. If you're talking about fostering the notion that people can get what they want by just showing up and putting their hands out, no way I'll support that. I guess you're just a socialist and I'm just a capitalist and ne'er the twain, etc... <g>