To: Glenn Petersen who wrote (8837 ) 1/12/2004 9:12:48 AM From: American Spirit Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 10965 Kerry's lighter side rolls on By Patrick Healy, Globe Staff, 1/11/2004 ABOARD THE REAL DEAL EXPRESS, Iowa -- The folk singer Peter Yarrow was serenading his old pal John Kerry and the presidential candidate's traveling press when the Peter, Paul, and Mary legend leaned across the aisle of the campaign bus and planted a major smooch on the cheek of a comely television reporter. ADVERTISEMENT The bus, reporter included, erupted in laughter. A chuckling Kerry also chided his friend, the godfather of his daughter Alex, to keep it tame on the Real Deal Express. But a few minutes later, Yarrow was back strumming on his guitar and inching toward the newswoman. Kerry's hands then shot up in between her face and Yarrow's, leaving no doubt that the senator's perfect manners include gallantry. "Peter, enough!" Kerry bellowed. The lighthearted personality of John Forbes Kerry has perhaps never been on such public display than on his luxury caravan -- which borrows his campaign's slogan for a name -- or in quieter moments, especially late at night when he tends to relax the most. Longtime friends watching him on the road in Iowa and New Hampshire say the same things as reporters who have been around him for just a few months: There's a lot to Kerry that many voters don't see. To wit: The man loves -- loves -- Hostess chocolate cupcakes. Although he insists wife Teresa has ruled them off-limits, his sweet tooth sometimes overrules her. He laughs at himself easily, like at the gentle ribbing he gets for his unofficial uniform -- brown cords, plain blue blazer, and L.L. Bean duck boots. He relaxes by practicing his guitar, as much a staple of the bus as the one or two cellphones each rider is carrying. Kerry lulls some of his aides to sleep with the dulcet tunes of "Don't Cry for Me Argentina." A late-night lark last month -- a stop at a bowling alley -- proved Kerry to be a master of the lane, scoring strikes with ease. Despite the sniping among the nine contenders for the Democratic nomination, Kerry acts and speaks with fondness for nearly all his rivals, listening keenly and respectfully to Dennis Kucinich's 10-minute speech Friday night at an education forum, for instance, and sticking up for Joe Lieberman, John Edwards, and some others in private moments. Proving the exception to the rule that candidates gain weight on the trail, Kerry's reedlike frame actually has shed pounds, a testament to his go-go-go work ethic and his willingness to obey his wife's health advice (cupcakes aside). While Teresa Heinz Kerry is known for speaking her mind, sometimes to the anxiety of campaign advisers, Kerry beams as she defends "opinionated women" and blasts President Bush -- and relishes private moments just sitting beside her. Despite the bumpy road his candidacy has traveled, he relaxes easily with the media in a small enclave at the back of the bus and delights in their references to it as "the champagne room" and "the Merv Griffin suite." Kerry is in the fight for his political life. He is climbing in the polls behind Howard Dean in Iowa but is far behind Dean in New Hampshire. But as the Real Deal Express rolls along, Kerry seems at home with himself, and happy.