To: Suma who wrote (19053 ) 10/16/2004 12:31:27 PM From: Lazarus_Long Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 90947 Message 20649597 It was the kind of spontaneous love-fest Heinz Kerry has not always received on the campaign trail, where she has been described as more cerebral than emotional and where she has been on the receiving end of right-wing attacks. Is the pretense being promoted here that Bush and Cheney have not been on the receiving end of LEFT WING attacks? Sure sounds like.Despite the fact that she was once married to late Republican Sen. John Heinz, the GOP has tried to turn the billionaire philanthropist into the second coming of Hillary Clinton, demonizing everything from her Portuguese accent to the causes supported by the Heinz family foundations she controls. You don't find a billionaire champion of the common man to be slightly suspicious?I'm surprised John's comments have taken on a negative theme. John was being positive and complimentary of how the Cheneys have handled, openly, the question of their daughter's lesbianism, just as John Edwards was in his debate. Probably, if John had really thought about it, he'd have mentioned no name. He'd have talked about how people of all kinds of religious persuasions, conservative and liberal, have gay children, and that it's not a choice. I previously asked what the reaction wopuld be to Cheney, then Bush, raising the issue of Kerry's daughters "fashion statement" at Cannes. I think this is a fair comparison. I never got an answer. Also the role od genetics, upbringing and choice in this matter, to the best of my knowledge, is still under dispute.A person doesn't choose their sexuality. Debatable statement stated as a fact.It seemed to me the more newsworthy part of the debate is that the president of the United States said he didn't know whether homosexuality is a choice, despite the overwhelming evidence that -- as you say -- it's not. If it's that overwhelming, I'd like to see it. And studies on the other side.On the other hand, I'm sure you can understand how painful the scrutiny of a campaign like this can be on a family. None of your three sons are gay. But what if one were? Wouldn't it make you especially protective of privacy? Yes, wouldn't you?No, not at all. As a parent, I love my children, and I hope I first gave them their roots and then their wings to fly. What a parent wants is for them to have the confidence to be who they are. I want to love all my children no matter who they are and to be proud of all of them. Nice quote during a heated, close campaign. I, for one, don't beleive it.Both you and your husband have been demonized by the usual right-wing suspects, from Rush Limbaugh to Matt Drudge to the Swift Boat Veterans. Looked at truthout.org or its ilk lately?The RNC has acknowledged a mailer saying John Kerry wants to allow gay marriage and ban the Bible. Does that give you a special empathy for their plight? And GWB has been accused of being being 911 and of invading Iraq and getting other Americans kids killed for oil.Because I grew up in a dictatorship, I saw first-hand how people try to control others. They do whatever it takes to control and suppress what they don't like. In many respects, what I might represent is a kind of independence some of these people don't want to see in women. Period. Or in the spouse of a senior official and, God forbid, the president. They just can't handle that. Oh, cut it out, Tay-Ray-Zah. This country had some strong and independent First Ladies before YOU ever heard of the place. I know he's not conservative because of these deficits. Name me a war time President in the last century who did not have deficits. Just One. BTW, the 1st 2 to run deficits were DEMOCRATS. Enough for now. I need to go. That was a political damage control piece. Nothing more.