To: i-node who wrote (208591 ) 10/27/2004 2:10:35 AM From: Amy J Respond to of 1573954 David, RE: "What, SPECIFICALLY, makes you believe Bush is a "divider"?" The choice of his words, "you are with me or against me." These are divisive words, which followers are emulating here. After Bush used those words, I heard a blue collar worker get mad at someone when he was standing in line, and he said, "you are either for me or against me." He was completely emulating what he heard from Bush. And since Bush has come into office, I've heard numerous people out there use those same words against some other stranger they don't know. People generally don't use such words with me, because I try to reset things to a more polite tone. But how many people attempt to reset things to a more polite exchange and try to listen with open ears, rather than spiral out of control into divisive anger? Too many people are emulating Bush's dividing language and inappropriately creating hostility when there's no need to. While you and I might have the intelligence to realize he was not talking about people in this country, at the end of the day, a leader (unfortunately) is emulating what followers will do here. I would also add that divisive language isn't appropriate for resolving things thru diplomatic channels. I am seeing too many people adopting Bush's divisive language, because this is what people tend to do, they tend to follow the leader, even if the leader is setting down the wrong example for them to use here. That is only one example. He says, "I", instead of "we". He tends to tell you what you should think, rather than say, "I hope you will consider my reasons." He seems to imply there's one way or no way. Overall, his choice of words creates an environment that divides people. Language is awfully important - for better and for worse. When he said he wasn't a divider, I think that should have been a warning to all of us. Regards, Amy J