To: Poet who wrote (90220 ) 12/2/2004 12:23:03 AM From: Grainne Respond to of 108807 "As for the other "accusation" I had made, I'll need some information from you first (for which I'm sorry!). Here's what I'd asked for: I've gone back through the past week or so of your posts and cannot yet find the post in which you said you understand friends who feel that the re-election of Bush-- and knowing that many of the votes for Bush were from the Armed Forces-- was so disappointing to them that they now consider the active Armed Forces serving in Iraq to be essentially on their own and undeserving of emotional support from the citizenry. Have I misremembered this? If I have, I'll look back further and produce the post from which I'm drawing the inference." ************** First, Poet, thank you for apologizing (for the things you apologized for). I really appreciate it. Now what you are asking for regarding your above statement totally puzzles me, and let me try to explain why. I have no idea why you are asking! Are you trying to say that I cannot bring forward interesting or provocative subjects to discuss at Feelies? Or something else? See, let me try to explain. I may have said what is quoted above. It is something I heard on the street and read about in the press--the very frustrated reaction of Kerry supporters to the troops after he lost, so they didn't care about the troops because they (the troops) overwhelmingly supported Bush. I thought it was worth discussing. Personally, I feel sick when I watch the faces of the dead troops go by on the PBS Newshour, but I can understand that reaction. What I am having trouble understanding is why my opinions, or some of the topics discussed here perhaps, are something that you somehow consider a personal affront or something you should make accusations against me about. We are not here to make each other happy. I can think of nothing more boring than a cyber place where everyone agrees with each other. Feelies is NOT THE GRAINNE SHOW. I expect everyone to have very different opinions from me--and I read many that I consider peculiar myself--but I want this to be a place where they can all be expressed. So I really am at a loss to clear up your objection, since I don't understand its basis. Perhaps you could explain (or stop being disappointed when I don't share your views).