To: Road Walker who wrote (224905 ) 3/18/2005 9:01:41 PM From: Amy J Read Replies (2) | Respond to of 1572202 RE: "Amy, Ted, Ten, all you folks are enjoying the spectacle. Reminisent of the Romans with their gladiators. You ought to be ashamed. John" Maybe you should be ashamed for wrongly assuming the matter should be left up to her so-called family. This case illustrates a lot of issues that need to be discussed, not ignored. I had a Dad on life support. It certainly wasn't easy for him or my Mom. And his recovery still isn't. These are issues that need to be addressed publically. Shame on you for ignoring these issues. Would have thought you'd be the type to want to have public awareness for such things. More often than not, the wife doesn't want to be on life support. You need to allow a public discussion of this, so women across the US can learn from it. There are a lot of hard issues here that need to be discussed - is it cruel to make your husband remain essentially unmarried while you are in a vegatation state in a hospital for 15 solid years, should we as woman make a will that gives the husband the freedom of peace to move on? Or, should a woman make someone else inherit her estate if he runs off with another woman while she's in the hospital? Where do women draw the line between getting the compassion needed while not ruining your husband's entire life? Additionally, she had a low potassium level that apparently got her into trouble, something that I've had by eating too many vegies rather than fruits. Back off for a moment, and let women learn about this case. I'm actually affended you think so little of life support and what it means to a family, that you don't encourage more discussion of it. Let people discuss this case. Let them have opinions. We all can learn from it. Regards, Amy J