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To: ManyMoose who wrote (100897)4/10/2005 2:14:51 PM
From: epicure  Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 108807
 
"There are ways to achieve that without forcing incompatible lifestyles to coexist in such a way that no one can be comfortable. "

I question this. I am completely comfortable with other people having very different lifestyles from mine- and allowing them to "coexist" with me. I do not want to limit the lifestyles of any of the adults who participate in my girls' girlscout troops, for example. I think wanting to limit others lifestyles, and their participation in the community, because you are not "comfortable" with what they do on their own time, with their own bodies, is wrong (as long as whatever they do sexually is between adults). We are down to basic philosophical premises here. I believe that people should be able to do pretty much whatever they want (as long as it doesn't hurt anyone else- "Hurt" NOT being defined as "what you are doing makes me feel uncomfortable even though it affects me in no other way.) You believe, as you have stated, that we can exclude people (and children presumably, since they are people too) who have incompatible "lifestyles" that make other people uncomfortable.

So you are not really for freedom and choice. You are for freedom and choice that doesn't make people uncomfortable- forgive me for pointing out that freedom and choice only mean something at the margins where people DO feel uncomfortable. The mainstream choice rarely needs to be "protected".