To: Elmer Phud who wrote (180980 ) 5/6/2005 5:17:31 AM From: Amy J Respond to of 186894 OT RE: "why do you suppose that is?" There probably isn't one answer. People have different reasons. My Mom never wore perfume to work, only when my parents would go out. She believes perfume is not appropriate for work. Some women don't want to send the wrong message - there's nothing worse than having a guy at work think you are sending him a message, when you're not. ( Putting perfume on sometimes can be a sign a woman is trying to impress a guy. ) I think women try hard to be taken seriously so don't wish to dilute their goals or message with the smell of perfume. ( But I think women should feel free to do whatever they believe fits their personal individuality, and not worry about what's the norm. ) On a different level, perfume is impractical to carry on trips. A bottle of perfume in luggage, risks leaking all over work clothes needed for meetings on business trips. Not a risk worth taking on trips. In the fast-paced world of hightech, perfume is just one more thing to do that's a drag on speed and efficiency. To keep this post somewhat on topic to the semiconductor industry, here's what an AMD exec reportedly packs, down to whether he wears briefs or boxers, I kid you all not: business2.com "After logging more than 150,000 miles a year as a vice president at Advanced Micro Devices (AMD), Kevin Knox has packing down to a science..." Back to OT, some women may not wish to waste money on a non-essential item like perfume - hightech women are quite good with math and many times money. Some women don't wear it because there is a very widespread cynical attitude towards consumer marketing, where Madison Avenue says women are suppose to be dumb and spend their money too. Many women believe their IQ levels are above the manipulations of consumer marketing, which in this country is quite negative for women. Many hightech women believe consumer marketing on women equates to dumbness. So, consumer marketing for women (e.g. for perfume, etc.) is to be ignored, not trusted. Other women don't wear it because they don't want to be confused with being a trophy wife. ( A friend of mine that's a s/c exec said everyone from Japan thought her husband was the exec rather than her at this one function. ) Still others don't wear it because they are sick and tired of being confused with a hired tradeshow bunny when they are "manning" a booth. (The smarter women tend to avoid working for corporations that lack a policy on not hiring bunnies.) Some women don't wear it because they don't want to be confused with women in lower paid occupations. (Not a polite reason.) I don't wear perfume in my personal life because there are way too many other ways to be feminine that are more natural - it's simply not my definition of femininity - I'd prefer to be heard and seen, rather than be smelly. Regards, Amy J PS There was a lady that got fired in San Francisco for being "smelly". The firing went to court, and she lost. The judge ruled the company had the right to decide on what was offensive and what wasn't. (Or something like that.) I thought the ruling was actually an abuse of the company's power, even though I'm somewhat happy corporations still hold the power to decide if someone's stink gets too bothersome.