TWO basic points:
1) the surest way to be unforgetable, whenever you meet ANY young women in this planet, just watch for any hint that she is unhappy with her body. Then work from there telling that it is not a problem, it is even an asset...
She will reward you, believe me, she won't forget you. You'll beat ANY guy with mor emoney than you, more physically attractive than you, even more clever than you.
I don't know what goals you are working towards, but the first thing many of my brad pitt type friends do when they see hot girl they want to bang is tell her - nice breasts, are they fake, or nice nails, are they fake, or beautiful flowing hair, is it bleached, or deep penetrating eyes, are you wearing contacts and then lead into some joke - they too look for physical thing and then knock the girl down a few levels to let them know he is not going to take thier sh** and go goo goo over their looks - now this only works on really hot girls(the ones my friends want to bang) - do this on a very insecure girl and she runs away in tears or gets mad and starts verbal fight or more with you so with them you have to do it your way.
There is whole amatuer science section on this on the web usenet with alt.fast-seduction
Now their goal is quick fun sex with hot girls, not getting used for free drinks or dinners and such like other sucker men. Remember "beautiful mind" John Nash - he win nobel prize based on game theory relating to this inspired by sex and women using sucker men for free drinks in bars - hehe.
I think it mostly comes down to confidence, you exude it, you put people at ease, people want to feel comfortable so they flock to you - like kerry said about bush - you can be certain and be dead wrong - HAHA - what a funny guy.
Remember Winona Ryder - plays cool collected girl in many roles, but how many REAL LIFE interviews you seen her in? Not many, I only seen her in one, david letterman, she was very edgy, panicky, very insecure, changed my whole impression of her. Looks will take you far, but if you don't put people at ease or exude confidence, you are sunk long term. Take dolly parton, scary frankenstien type face pulling plastic surgery - but she such a sweet funny country girl you just really like her presence cause she so easy going and self confident.
My bum friend in Hawaii, male model type - used to do some professional modeling - brad pitt looks - got him and still gets him all the one night stands he wants, but when they discover his wild drinking tirades and nuerotic ways - he can't hold them long term. He used to want long term, but then he said I must work with the gifts god gave me - hehe - so he just try to be happy with more and more elle mcpherson, rachel hunter one night stands - hehe - poor drunk.
2) Now that I mentioned the word clever. Women find us clever guys extremely sexy. We beat all the other guys by sheer brain power.
I think it comes back to confidence, you take great refuge in your practical life and experience and this gives you great security and confidence, this makes you like a rock for weak ball of emotion to attach onto and bring some stability into her psycho needy life. hehe Notice constant theme of mine though, as other person becomes rock of her own with great self confidence, maybe not so needy of person to bring that stability into her life.
All the other aspects are secondary to this.
It is all in how you make people feel, make them feel good Bush Style and pander to thier emotional needs - you can fly in the face of any other rationality - look at Mr. jim jones.
I knew this very ugly, loudmouthed, obnoxious, fat, poor, broke, uneducated ignorant Iranian, but he would make the girls laugh and really put them at ease, they always felt great around this guy - and much richer, more educated people would not understand how he would score these beautiful women so ugly and loudmouthed. He was in the pool one night at a college party (he was not a student - everyone just always invite him becuse he was wild and crazy guy) and he got in the pool naked drunk and start singing born in the USA. He got 2 of the hot chicks that night - hehe.
Look at Ron Jeremy - I watch him in "surreal life" when they put him in house with Tammy Faye Baker - that was wild - but he comes off as really nice easy going fellow - he said he would never do show like that again, he had went 12 days with no sex and it was the worst thing in his life - HAHA! Now he is a fat ugly guy, but he like a big sweet teddy bear so he put people at ease, I never knew he had a masters in education util that show - my bum friend also got his masters in english with intention to teach. |
