To: MrLucky who wrote (5611 ) 11/21/2005 3:19:43 PM From: epicure Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 541416 You probably wouldn't know this, but I have my posts taken all over SI and reposted- and so having something in quotes, which I did not say, but which is posted to me as if I did, is likely to pop up all over the place (and since some people apparently keep files of my posts, I might even see it years from now.) Thus I am more sensitive to this then people who don't have people following them around. I didn't tell you you were silly or bizarre either, so don't go away thinking that, because it's simply not true- it's very important to refer to posts and things, instead of people (imo) - and I am very sensitive to posts in which people and issues are confused. Very rarely I will say something personal (that isn't nice), because I find something so flagrant (stupidity, lying, something of that sort)- but certainly not in your posts. What I SAID was: "It's bizarre that you would get that from my post"- "it's" does not refer to YOU. It refers to the situation of getting this idea from my post. I did NOT say you were bizarre, because I did not mean you, and I don't know you, and I don't want to hazard a guess about you- my only comment was on the situation where you got this idea from my post. And as for silly, that referred to a question "I've no idea why you would ask me such a SILLY question." So even though you probably didn't mean to, you have yet again told me I said something I did not: "You fired back with telling me I'm silly and bizarre and wasting your time." Obviously you thought I was saying rather insulting things about you even when I wasn't- because I don't think YOU are bizarre or silly, and in fact I know almost nothing about you. I am sure you felt that what you said was true, but when you look at the words, it isn't. What I said was true, and when you look at the words you will see that. So, I never said you were silly OR bizarre. I do agree with the waste to time stuff though, because I am still seeing posts that tell me I said something I did not say, and until I see that change, I'm going to think this was a complete waste of time. I am willing to discuss almost any issue; it was the style of the posts, and your treatment of what I said that bothered me, not the substance. You wrongly assumed that making up statements for me would not bother me as much as it did, and as far as I can see, that's really the assumption that led a series of posts that could have been a discussion, astray.